S.T.A.R.S. MATRIX®
FIELD GUIDE
“While Others React,
S.T.A.R.S. MATRIX Professional Respond”®
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AFTER 4 - S.T.A.R.S. NO MORE
Level 1 Baseline - (Cool & Calm)
- S Friendly Collaborative Opening
- T Active In-Depth Listening
- A Explore multiple options together
- R Use detailed nuanced metaphors
- S Develop Comprehensive Resolution Plan
Level 2: Mild Agitation (Warming Up)
- S Acknowledge frustration, calm tone
- T Validate emotional experience
- A Introduce simple alternative viewpoints
- R Use simpler, direct metaphors
- S Focus on immediate, manageable steps
Level 3: Moderate Tension (Heating Up)
- S Prioritize safety, speak calmly
- T Brief, focused validation
- A Offer clear, limited options
- R Use straightforward, grounding metaphors
- S Establish clear, immediate boundaries
Level 4: High Aggression (Boiling Point)
- S Focus solely on safety
- T Minimal perspective acknowledgment
- A Provide single, clear alternative
- R Use extremely brief safety-focused metaphors
- S Immediate safety intervention
Level 5: Extreme Crisis (Danger Zone)
- S Protect life first - emergency commands
- T NO perspective taking
- A Minimal to no verbal alternatives
- R NO metaphors
- S Emergency intervention only
FUNCTIONS OF BEHAVIOR
O
OUT
Trying to Escape
- Arrest
- Detainment
- Jail
- Crisis
W
WATCHED
Wanting Attention
- Influence
- Media
- Reactions
- Power
L
LOCKED ON
Access to Something
- Item
- Person
- Privilege
- Job
S
Self-Soothe
Comfort Behavior
- Pressure
- Stress
- Anxiety
- Tension
O
OUTW
WATCHEDL
LOCKED ONS
Self-SootheVERBAL FRAMES
Script: "I can see you're dealing with a lot right now. I want to work with you to resolve this safely; I just want to help."
Script: "Help me understand what this looks like from where you stand. I want to understand your perspective."
Verify these physiological success markers before using complex reasoning, metaphors, or plans:
- [ ] Vocal Tone Normalizing: Volume lowers, speech rate slows down.
- [ ] Physical Tension Dropping: Dropped shoulders, hands/fists unclenched.
- [ ] Systemic Stabilization: Breathing slows and deepens, eye contact stabilizes.
Are they in (PAST, CURRENT, or FUTURE)
Bring them to Current
If the issue is in the current, take them to the future
Field Script: "Let's break this down piece by piece, one piece at a time, so I can completely understand."
Field Script: "Let's focus on the most important issue now and work our way to the other issues after."
Use When: Subject is locked in direct, logical arguments. (I get it, you feel like you're spinning your wheels in the mud).